I am a mother of 5, 2 of them are special needs. I have been married for 10 1/2 years, and my husband is very controlling. Its getting to the point that whenever I have a new frind (neigbor) he does stuff to ruin it, and then blames iton them. He is trying to do that again with my next door neigbor and is turning something innocent and turning it into perversion. My neigbor is female . My husband is physcially abusive to my children, to the fact that he has grabbed them by the throat and will pin them to the wall. He is verbally absuive, he has called everyone of us worldly names, bad words, etc.
My children are suffering because of his ways. I am suffering becauseof his ways. There is no respect inout home, he feels that I should have 2 jobs, one inside the home and one outside the home, because he wants to have more money. We arent suffering that nice. He says he is saved, but at this point, I feel he is a wolf in sheeps clothing. I really do. We have no peace, no happiness, we have a burden and My husband is that burden. He also drinks beer just about on a daily basis. Which can add up. He has no problems drinking. I need prayer, I need help to figure out what my options are. I want to be christ like and follow Christ and SAtan seems to be invited in our home by my husbands actions. Please pray for us.

Shermarie, you cannot let this continue. I don't know where you are, so I can't give you specifics, but there are in many cities organizations for women in your situation. If you are in a church, talk to the pastor or his wife immediately! Without help, this will only get worse. Our church will lift you up in prayer.

Amen Brother Tim! Shermarie, I believe you have only one option for the safety of both your children and yourself and that is to seperate from this man. There is no way to predict when he may do rather serious physical harm to you all. As Brother Tim said, there are a lot of organizations that exist to aid in situations such as this. Do you attend Church? If so you ought to contact your Pastor or your deacon to see if the Church can offer assistance.

I shall pray for you that you suffer no serious harm farther than what has already happened and that you make the right decision as to the immediate future of your safety.

In Christ,
George